Tagged: Attracting Women

Sometimes, knowing what youíre looking for in a woman can be quite difficult. And if youíre one of them, donít get discouraged. It truly isnít as difficult as you may think to find the right woman for you.

The very first thing you must do is resign to be very open-minded. You need to cast aside all the standards that you may have been using and start from scratch.  Forget what all your buddies say is attractive. Never mind what you see in the lingerie commercials on television. Youíll want to start with the very basics of what makes two people compatible, not two lovers, but two people in general, in order to find what kind of person works for you.

In order to find out what you are really looking for in a woman, you need to take the time to consider the complete person, not just the body. You need to take into consideration things like personality, interests, ambition and then looks. Youíre probably wondering why I listed those traits in the order I did.

If you consider looks first it will tend to cloud your judgment on all the other traits. Men tend to be very easily visually stimulated. For this reason, what excites them at first sight tends to be what they think they want.

However, if you consider what you want in the other areas, the looks may not be so important. You may find that a woman with a great personality that likes football and racing as much as you do and who takes her career as a human resources director seriously, but who happens to be a brunette with only an average build, would suit you just fine. Personality, intelligence, ambition, sense of humor and interests play a much bigger role in attraction than just physical appearance.

Mark J and myself will be releasing an e-book very soon on how to pick up women in the office.
So many guys spend so much of their lives working in the office, and they miss countless opportunities in attracting women they like who they see up to a whole 9 hours a day!
Simple, men believe that it is some what of a taboo to go for a woman whom they wok with, for many reasons, such as:

– If she rejects him, then he will have to face the inevitable uncomfortable silences and awkward situations that will happen as a result.

– People simply do not get involved with people they have to maintain a professional relationship with

– The lack of knowledge/skills and techniques that you need in order to actually make a move on a woman you are working with

This are the most common reasons that men use to avoid actually going for the woman they desire who they happen to be working with.
There is really no useful advice out there in helping men in this situation.
In this video Mark J touches on the this subject.