When it comes to seducing a woman, attitude plays a very big role in how successful, or unsuccessful you are. If you have a positive attitude youíre more likely to attract women more easily than a guy with a negative attitude. Being positive and upbeat shows in nearly everything you do, as does being negative and glum. Women are much more likely to choose the positive, upbeat guys.
First, a positive attitude reflects confidence and self-respect. As we already discussed, confidence and self-respect are vital. A positive attitude also directly affects how other people feel when theyíre around you. For example, have you ever had a friend or co-worker who was always down or pessimistic? If you have, did you notice that after a while his or her mood started making you feel down or uncomfortable or irritable? Chances are itís happened to all of us. So remember, if for no other reason than to not be a dark cloud hanging over everyoneís head, try your best to be positive and have a good attitude.
But it goes much further than that. When youíre trying to make your best impression on a woman, being negative will not work. You have to feel good before you can make anyone else feel good. You have to radiate the same kinds of feelings you want to receive. If youíre not giving off those positive vibes weíll pick up on it and most likely steer clear of you.
The bottom line: women like to find a man whoís stable. Part of what women judge stability on is your work. No, this doesnít mean you need to be a rocket scientist. It simply means that if youíre changing jobs every couple of months, or getting let go for poor attitude or poor performance, which is directly affected by your attitude, then weíre going to think twice before we get involved with you. Remember, women are looking for a partner; a 50 ñ 50 relationship.