When it comes to dating (or even seducing) a woman, confidence is vital. Women often equate ìself confidenceî with the ability to be successful. While many men believe that women look for successful men because theyíre likely to make more money, thatís simply not true.
While itís a given, women actually look for successful men because theyíre more likely to be satisfied. So you may be wondering what a man being satisfied has to do with anything. Let me explain. You see, women know that men who are satisfied with themselves are less likely to go out looking for someone to satisfy them and are more stable.
And in a relationship that means a man will be less likely to cheat, or change jobs frequently or get himself into any number of other compromising situations. Remember that most women are looking for a man who will be their partner as well as their lover.
Not only do they want a partner when it comes to things like companionship, decision-making and finances, but in the bedroom, as well. In order to effectively seduce a woman you must make her feel as though youíre both equals.
When it comes to confidence, it seems there are two kinds of people – those who have it and others who simply donít. Although on the surface this may be true, everyone has the potential to be ìself confidentî, or motivated if you would like to call it.
Take heart in knowing that youíre a good person, smart, funny, good at your job, loving, considerate or whatever else you find to be positive character traits that you have. Be comforted to know that NOT all women are looking for a CEO or brain surgeon. They just want a man whoís confident with who he is, what he knows and what he has to offer to a relationship with them!